Celebrating 30 Years of ICAN: 30 Crafts–Love Letters

In honor of Valentine’s Day, today’s #30Crafts theme is focused on LOVE.  Although technically the idea is really more of an activity, it can easily be turned into a project of “Love Letters.”

During my Bradley Method childbirth class, our teacher had us do a wonderful exercise with our partner: to list 5 things they were doing great, or 5 things we loved about our partner in regard to our pregnancy. As a pregnant momma, I had been so focused on what I needed (which for any momma can feel like quite a bit, and especially when I was fighting for a VBAC) that I had my list all ready of things I would like to see my partner improve upon (practice relaxation with me, etc). This was a formal yet gentle redirection. This was a dedicated time for me to remember all the reasons (or at least 5 reasons) I was so grateful to have my partner’s love and support.  And what a powerful exercise it can be, sitting together face to face, with no distractions, to hear your partner tell you 5 things they love about you in return!  Emotionally, I felt so much more connected, so much more patient, so much more powerful! And most importantly: so much more a team.

Another fun “Love Letter” idea is inspired by these “dear baby” posts from a pregnant momma to her unborn baby.  Moms and Dads – take a few minutes and write a love letter to your baby. Whether it’s a simple “I can’t wait to meet you,” or a more detailed storytelling of current family events and wishes- these letters may be enjoyed by your child when they are older… or they could be a way to record precious memories which are so easily forgotten over time. Scrapbook, baby keepsake box, or blogging are all easy ways to save these letters!